“My parents are divorced for many years and my Dad lives with his girlfriend. A recent issue came up that we have to confront but I am unsure if I should go to him or his girlfriend. Can my sister and I knock some sense into him by way of his girlfriend?
You need to use his girlfriend as an ally. Us women have to stick together, but you shouldn’t be afraid to confront your father. Make sure to talk to them together so you feel more comfortable.
Don’t worry the best is yet to come in 2019, and talking to your Father is the first step toward healthy communication and change 🙂