5 Tips to Help You Find Love for Valentine’s Day 1. Tell everyone you know you are looking for a committed relationship 2. Accept every invitation to go out and meet people and socialize 3. Write a list of five improvements you would like to make in yourself, and do them 4. Write a list of your five best qualities you have to offer someone, and keep reminding yourself what a great catch you are 5. Visualize yourself every morning and before bed in a happy relationship and stay happy and positive all day!