Single seniors excited for vaccine so they can date again


These silver foxes are back on the prowl.

“I used to go on tons of coffee dates,” said Linda Wohlers, a 73-year-old divorcée who lives in Naples, Florida. That is, until the pandemic “put a dead end to anything spontaneous, especially dating.” Now, the Queens-born retiree is looking to get back out there — “There are a lot of single men down here!” — and already has an IRL date set up with a man she met online right before lockdown hit.

With the vaccine rollout prioritizing seniors, who are at a higher risk of serious complications from COVID — Wohlers’ retirement community is set to start giving out its shots on Monday — the 65-plus crowd is set to retire boring virtual dates in favor of the real thing.

“They want companionship more than anything, especially after many of them lived in isolation for the better part of 10 months,” said Maureen Tara Nelson, a Long Island-based relationship expert and matchmaker. “The silver foxes and cougars can’t wait to get back on the prowl to find the loves of their lives, without health and safety fears for them and their partner.”

Helen Fisher, Ph.D., an anthropologist who conducts scientific surveys for, predicts that “seniors will be out in droves. They have been more cautious over the past year than their younger counterparts, but as soon as they’re vaccinated they’ll be out.”

‘I want to live the life I have left, because who knows how many more years there will be?’

Linda Wohlers

According to Fisher, video chatting will remain commonplace as an important “vetting stage” before in-person dating. But, she added, “The brain is built to meet somebody in person. It’s much more intense.” Like everyone else, older singles are looking for “romantic love,” she said.

Wohlers has already booked a private tour of the Everglades with her long-distance man, whom she chats with online every day.

“We met online and we found each other attractive, but he’s from Missouri,” said Wohlers, adding that rising COVID numbers in their respective home states kept them from meeting in person. “I didn’t want him flying in when cases were high, and it’s pretty lax here, too.”

Deborah, 56, a teacher who lives outside of Kingston, New York, is likewise excited to regain her freedom to flirt in person after getting the jab, which she hopes to get in a matter of weeks as an immunocompromised front-line worker.

Linda Wohlers, 73, is scheduling her first in-person date since lockdown for right after she receives her vaccine.
Linda Wohlers, 73, is scheduling her first in-person date for right after she receives her vaccine.
Courtesy of Linda Wohlers

“I’m looking forward to meeting someone face to face,” said the instructor, who added that she’d be “more confident” if a potential date was also vaccinated.

“I like when you can take a moment to touch someone’s hand, or connect by brushing their shoulder, or fixing a collar,” she added.

Right now, though, that feeling is still tantalizingly out of reach for many.

“I love women,” said Chuck Pollack, a 78-year-old Upper West Sider who spends half of his time in Boynton Beach, Florida. “But if Miss America were at my door tonight, I would not open the door.”

The retired gym teacher, who reasons he has to “protect himself,” hasn’t been out to a restaurant since February, even though Florida has had fewer restrictions when it comes to eating out. “The numbers are going up here every day,” he said

During normal times, Pollack would take dates to fish restaurants along the Intercoastal, or Italian joints in downtown Boynton, though he’s not planning any dinners “until I get both doses of the vaccine,” he said.

He might soon get the chance, though. Florida has administered more than 1 million jabs, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. And his age range puts him next in line to pursue the throngs of “single, divorced or widowed women in my condo development.”

Chuck Pollack, a 78-year-old Upper West Sider can't wait to get the COVID vaccine so he can return to the dating scene.
Chuck Pollack, a 78-year-old Upper West Sider can’t wait to get the COVID vaccine so he can return to the dating scene.
Courtesy of Chuck Pollack

While they wait for the vaccine, these seniors are focused on getting in the best shape of their lives before the floodgates open.

To fill the time, Pollack bikes five days a week. Likewise, Wohlers has been powerlifting to get her body tip-top before meeting her man.

In the next year, inoculation is likely to become an important dating criteria, like height and income, that makes someone an attractive mate.

“I’d be willing to go up to 65, and that’s someone who is more likely to be vaccinated,” said Deborah of her dating preferences, “So it’s a win-win.”

Wohlers, for one, is ready to get back in the game.

“We’ve waited long enough!” she said. “I want to live the life I have left, because who knows how many more years there will be?”

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